Sunday, November 1, 2009
Beautiful Beautiful Day
Trees planted in honor of the memory of Dale Stover.
PS. And Dad, it wasn't sad or tearful! Just like you wanted it. :)
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
The Red Oaks are Here!
Mom shows off the Red Oak trees that will be planted on Sunday at Dale's Celebration!Can't wait to see everyone this weekend and celebrate my Dad.
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Dale's Final Resting Place
This cruise had been planned month's ago to celebrate my 50th birthday. We will add this ceremony to our itinerary.
Dale is surely smiling today....his ultimate wish...fulfilled!
Those interested in joining us, should contact our Travel Agent and friend, Kay Sanderford at kay.sanderford@americasvacationcenter.com or 800-374-8108.
Friday, October 16, 2009
his memory and celebrate his life at a
Tree Planting Ceremony
November 1, 2009 at 4:00 pm.
Services held on the grounds of the historic
Hiller House
3003 N. Vine
Victoria, Texas 77901
You are invited to participate in the service. Please bring a small
packet of soil from your own garden to help nourish Dale’s trees.
Trees will be tended by the Keep Victoria Beautiful project.
Reception to follow:
First United Methodist Church
407 N. Bridge Street
Victoria, Texas 77901
Saturday, October 10, 2009
Dale is survived by his wife of 58 years, Jacqulyn Stover; daughter, Marzetta Gaskamp and her husband Ted of Phoenix, Phyllis Boedeker and her husband Dennis of Pearland, Melissa Gaubatz and her husband Maurice of Colorado Springs; grandchildren, Michael Gaskamp and his wife Rachel, Lauren Wallberg and her husband Bill, Shelley Whistler and her husband Stephen, Emily Boedeker, Naish Gaubatz, Elise Gaubatz, and Julia Gaubatz; great-grandson, James Richard Gaskamp; and many nieces and nephews.
In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by siblings Willard Stover, Pauline Cleveland, Charlene Robertson, Minnie Loftin, and Jackie Malone.
The celebration of Dale's life will take place on Nov. 1, 2009. The celebration and tree planting will be held in the gardens of Keep Victoria Beautiful's Hiller House. (3003 N. Vine, Victoria, TX) . Times TBA.
In lieu of flowers, the family has asked that donations be made to The Stover Memorial @ Keep Victoria Beautiful, 3003 N. Vine, Victoria, Texas 77901, or the charity of choice.
Friday, October 9, 2009
Celebration of Life
Please check back for more details as they are made.
Thursday, October 8, 2009
Oct. 7, 2009
Arrangements for the party that will celebrate Dale's life are pending.
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
3:00 pm Update on 7 October 2009
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
8:00 pm Visit Update 6 October 2009
Dale's Heart rate is 93 - 99, BP is 110/68
Dale is sleeping alot still. There is a bit of a rattle in his chest. He is having pain in the abdomen which is being treated with dilauted (sp) - doses at noon and at 6 pm.
A KUB scan was performed in the afternoon and a sonagram on the abdomen and finally a CT scan. The outcome of the tests was the identification of air in the large intestine (horizontal section) and some in the small intestine. At this time, Dr. Henry has not ordered an NG tube, the nurse says the air is too far down for the tube to help.
Dale is still on the cardizem drip, glucose and NaCl.
The kidney's are not as suspect at this time. The abdomen will be evaluated in the morning by Dr. Henry.
The nurse is trying to give as little as necessary of the dilauted as it can retard the digestive tract.
Update from Noon Visit 6 October 2009
C1D13
Monday, October 5, 2009
More updates
5pm: Dr. Karp (chair study at MD Anderson) called to discuss the difficulties Dale was having. He will consult with Dale's primary doctor here at Citizens.
3pm: Dale's blood pressure is back to normal. He's had 500 cc of Levaquin (antibiotic). They are really pushing liquids. Xanax for anxiety seems to be helping. Clear liquids by mouth. Seems a bit more lucide this trip.
1pm: Dr. Henry thinks Dale is fighting an infection either in his lung or kidneys. Chest Xrays this morning look like one of his lungs may be starting to infect. Urine had some bacteria in it also. Blood presssures are slowly creeping back up. Other labwork looks normal. Ativan for anxiousness. Antibiotics to cure whatever is infected. Probably in ICU until tomorrow, then moved to a regular room. We will be able to see him again at 3pm. I've spoken with the folks at MD Anderson several times today. They are sending their most recent lab results to Citizen's for comparison.
9am:Dale is having renal issues. They are pushing fluids. Potassium is elevated. Blood pressure is very, very low. He is dazed and confused. Waiting for brain MRI report. Urine output is being monitored. Not much fight in Dale right now.
Oh No
Dale has taken a turn for the worse. He doesn't know who she is, can't swallow liquids, hasn't urinated in hours and she's scared. She's calling 911 and we're packing up our stuff and headed to Victoria.
6am update: Dale has been moved to 2nd floor ICU at Citizen's Hospital. He's had bloodwork, Chest Xray and a brain MRI. Bloodwork shows some renal issues. Jackie is waiting to consult with Dr. Henry as soon as he arrives. We're about an hour away from Victoria...
Sunday, October 4, 2009
C1D11
He's not in any pain and no nausea. Just exhausted!
Saturday, October 3, 2009
C1D10
Hopefully, the confidence gained from the new pain medication regime will encourage Dale enough to continue with more treatments.
Friday, October 2, 2009
C1D9
Let us all breath a sigh of relief that pain has been alleviated. Dale can feel the fatigue that chemotherapy brings, but resting now helps fix that. He's not had to take the morphine for break through pain and that is also good.
1. Do not leave the Houston area until after you are confident you can handle the side effects of Cycle 1.
2. Go to the ER at MD Anderson if you are in severe enough pain that Tylenol can't fix.
3. Eat small meals often to avoid nausea.
4. An electric blanket is very comforting for sore joints.
5. Werthers Original candies soothe a sore mouth.
6. Oral mouth sponges help alleviate the coated feeling in your mouth.
7. Try either Biotene mouthwash and baking soda mix, alternating for mouth pain.
8. Get a chart to keep track of new "as needed" medications.
9. Chapstick on the lips helps the sore mouth sensation.
10. Chicken and dumplings, macaroni and cheese, any non-spicy soup, watermelon, jello, milk shakes, and de-caf Iced tea are all good foods for a sore mouth.
11. Xyloxylin is helpful for a sore throat.
Thursday, October 1, 2009
C1D8
I'll update more later!
Dale is getting a Fentanyl Lollipop to swab the inside of his cheeks with for pain. Fast acting. All blood work is done. Dr. Viets will give Ativan by IV next. Working on a plan to find a pain protocol that he can use at home. He's in Pod B Room 24. Only one person back there at a time. Mom and I are taking turns. Excellent care. Hope they can find a pain method that works at home and this doesn't turn into an admit.
10am: Dale is resting comfortable after an Xray and an Ativan injection. Pain level 2-3. Fingers crossed that his pain if finally under control!
11:30pm: Being discharged with an arsenal of pain medications!
2:30pm: My dear SIL went by and checked on the patient for me (while I was digging myself out of a week's missed work) and reports both the patient and his wife were sleeping soundly!!! Hurray...pain meds must be working!
6pm: Dale just left with Dennis to go grocery shopping! Apparently, the morning meds have "healed" him. Still praying this is long lasting! Dale's new medication regime is 2 Oxycontin - twice a day for 3 days, one 600mg Ibuprofen every 8 hours for 5 days and in case that isn't enough.....Morphine Sulfate every 4 hours for breakthrough pain!!!! EEEKK!! All of Dale's labwork today was fine.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
C1D7
I'm heading back home today...hoping that Mom and Dad can continue the recovery solo. I feel pretty much helpless.
Noon update: Headed back to MD Anderson. They aren't happy with his progress....
5pm update: Dr. Karp (study chair) called at 1pm and wanted Dale to go to Ibuprofen before going to the ER. Dale has had some relief (pain level 8 to a 4) while we drove to Pearland. We're going to continue the Ibuprofen for the night and then go to MD Anderson tomorrow for weekly blood test. I pray this is the actual drug that stops the pain! Dr. Karp believes that Dale has had an inflammatory reaction to Taxol. Painful joints should have been relieved by day 5!
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
C1D6
His mouth issues have really settled down, swallowing is still iffy though. He's able to get up and move about some, though he laughs and calls himself "Sanford" because his gait is very similar to the guy on "Sanford and Son" tv show. He's not been able to wear his dentures since Saturday and he is very self conscious of that.
Dale will have a glucose/blood test on Thursday here in Victoria.
I'm hoping that by 9am the Oxycontin will have worked it's magic like it did last night and he'll report a pain level of a 2! Fingers crossed!
9am: Pain level 5, nausea under control. A little breakfast in his stomach. Fatigue has reared it's ugly head. Dale's in bed now, resting! Research nurse at MD Anderson has called to check in this morning. She's called 3-4 times since Monday.
1pm: Pain level 4-1/2 after a two hour nap. Sitting outside trying a change of scenery. Taste seems to be improving. Nausea still under control. Rash behind both ears. Fingertips feel different. Normal swelling in ankles has been nonexistent since Saturday. Not taking Lasixs, but may need to get back on it - waiting for doctor decision.
6pm: After a very rough afternoon, 2 tylenols seems to have taken the edge off Dale's painful joints. His pain level is now a 3! Bottoms of his feet are tender. Jackie's working on Chicken and Dumplings! Hope he can get those down. He's not eaten much today.
Monday, September 28, 2009
C1D5
Dale is really struggling with joint pain. Knees, elbows and ankles are sore and tender. He's trying Tylenol without much success. A headache is also zapping his once chipper attitude. Mouth and throat issue continue, but the overriding joint pain has moved that issue out of the limelight. I've called MD Anderson this morning, they suggest a trip to the local ER for the joint pain. Dale refuses to go - so we'll try to ride out this pain here at home.
I went to Walmart last night late and purchased an electric blanket. Dale wraps up in it like a burrito and the warmth offers some relief to the achy flu-like symptoms.
He's really working hard to get his 66 ozs. of fluids a day. Throat issues make swallowing problematic. He's trying to eat every 2-3 hours to avoid nausea. Hot foods don't work, salt doesn't have a taste and most everything he eats vaguely tastes like it should. He's using a baking soda rinse in his mouth now ever 2-3 hours. Daily temperature readings are holding normal.
Dr. Karp (chair study at MD Anderson) told Dale that he hoped chemo wouldn't knock his "hubcaps" off. Dale said last night, the "hubcaps" were wobbling. Pain rating last night was an 8. It's still an 8 this morning.
Praying Day 5 is the last bad day!
3pm update: Dale is just up from a nap and seems to be feeling a bit better. I'm headed to the pharmacy to pick up a new pain medicine.
11pm update: Not sure if it was the new script, Oxycontin. or just some time, but Dale's pain level is now a 2! Hopefully, he's turned the corner on achiness and tomorrow morning will be the start of getting back to normal!
Sunday, September 27, 2009
C1D4
Dale slept well last night. Used Biotene mouthrinse often to eleviate the dry/tender mouth issues. Werthers Original candies provide some relief. Taste is still a bit off, Dale is officially not a jalapeno eater for now. Watermelon is good, and if he soaks the Oreos in milk long enough - they are delicious! Had Breakfast Taco filling (sans tortilla) for breakfast. Going to try Macaroni and Cheese today.
No nausea, no fever, no fatigue, no aches! Geez! I feel like a vulture circling the house...waiting for something to go wrong. Dad is averaging 66 ozs. of fluids a day.
Attitude: Great, Activity level: 105%, Energy level: Normal
I have a call into Dr. Tsao to ask for permission to use the Benadryl/lidocaine/Maalox compound (prescribed during Proton Therapy) for the sore mouth and throat he's experiencing.
For those that know Dale, he's had one nap since Thursday! So fatigue is obviously not a problem.
4pm update: Dale has had a teensy bit of nausea this afternoon, cured by eating lunch. Thought is that he needs to eat a bit every 2-3 hours. Knees are a bit sore. Mouth and throat continue to be a nuisance. Still taking his steriods and Zofran. Chocolate shake was a winner. Macaroni and cheese for lunch and a chocolate meringue pie waiting for dessert later! YUMM!!
Oddly enough, the CT scan Dale took last week (9/17) -showed improvement in a few of his previously noted nodules (8/17)! His biggest nodule is just under 1cm! We are hopeful that CP-751781 can melt those small nodules!
Dale is a bit achy and a bit fatigued this evening. His mouth issues are pretty stabilized but he's feeling the affects of the chemo in his stomach now. His attitude is still good and we're all searching for ways to lessen the effects and provide comfort. He's been out in the yard some today, but mostly in the recliner watching Tiger win the FedEx Cup. All-in-all, Dale has really handled the past 4 days like a pro. Fears that we all had about side effects have been replaced with sighs of relief that things are going so well. Fingers crossed that tomorrow is a good day too!
Saturday, September 26, 2009
C1D3 = Cycle 1 Day 3
Face is a bit flushed.
Breakfast, biscuits and bacon. Some comments about the taste being lowered.
Comments about the sensation of his hands being shaky this morning.
Nothing above is a concern, just observations.
Attitude: terrific, Energy level: 110%, Activity level: above normal.
Dale is taking Dexamethasone (steroid, 2 pills a day/twice a day for 3 days) and Zofran (nausea, 1 pill/8 hours or as needed). He's taking the Zofran as a preventative to nausea, none noted so far.
Friday, September 25, 2009
Cycle 1 Day 2
Apparently the steriods given yesterday by IV have created a 16 year old mentality! Dale feels rejuvenated and refreshed. I think his exact words this morning are "I could run a marathon!". Another favorite Daleism, "Nobody should feel this good with cancer".
So Day 2 has started off well! We will pack up and head to Victoria some time this morning.
I, on the other hand, am headed to the Vet's office. When we returned home last night, our dashchund was in distress. Not sure if we've broken a paw or what?
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Cycle 1 Day 1


We arrived at MD Anderson at 7:45am. After some waiting, Dad was called back for his vitals (all good) and then escorted to Room 16 of the Clinical Research Translation center. The room is set up similar to a hospital ER exam room. We waited a few more minutes and around 9:15, Kendra (Dale's nurse) hooked Dale up to an IV. She brings in 8 or 9 bags of medications and hangs them on his "tree". Benadryl, Zofran, a steriod and another drug that eases digestive upset were given (each in 10 minute increments). Dale dined on a Prasek's Pig and a banana! Once those pre-meds were onboard, vitals were taken again and then Taxol was added. Taxol will drip for 3 hours. Kendra comes by every few minutes to see how things are going. It's 11am and he'll be on taxol til around 2pm.
1pm update: Ashley, Research Nurse, came by with a questionaire to complete and three prescriptions to take home. Zofran, a steroid and compazine - nausea meds for the next few days. Lunch is being served and Dale's reclined in the chair watching Tiger tee off! Pretty easy day so far. Have about 45 more minutes of Taxol, 1/2 hour of Carbo, then 1 hour of the "experimental" stuff, then 4 hours of fluids! Should be done about 8pm! UGH!
3pm update: Waiting on lab draw and then the "experimental" drug drips for one hour! Going great! Photo at the top is of the "experimental" drug. Duly marked as experimental! IV is annoying him, but he's tolerating it. Still joshing with the nurses and being 'funny'.
5:30pm: Dale has had one hour of fluid IVs so far. Dr. Tsao wanted 4 hours of fluids after treatment to help flush the kidneys. Dinner has been ordered and the first round of FedEx cup is complete! Dale had another blood draw one hour after the experimental drug. His last blood draw today. Fluids should be finished around 8:30pm, then we'll head to Pearland for the night. Dennis picked up all of Dale's home medications and they are waiting for us at home. Dale will take a steroid for 3 days and Zofran as necessary. He also has Compazine for nausea if needed. Everyone hear really preaches "fluids" so I guess that's our new mantra!
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Dale + Figitumumab!
He gets the new experimental Pfizer drug, Figitumumab, that looks to beat standard chemotherapy responses to his type cancer by about 23% better odds! Yippee! Hooray!
To quote my Father, "I'm the luckiest guy around!".
Thursday's treatment will take about 7 hours for all three drugs to be administered. Dale will have several blood draws prior to treatment and then another blood draw one hour after treatment.
Monday, September 21, 2009
Schedule grows
Time........... Appointments for 10/13/2009
7:20 AM.... CHEST, PA & LAT
7:45 AM.... BLOOD/SPECIMEN COLLECTION
9:00 AM.... TSAO, ANNE M.D.
Dale will have his second treatment as soon as his appointment with Dr. Tsao is completed.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Signing on the dotted line......
At 10:30am we met Dr. Daniel Karp. A straight-to-the-point, humorless doctor who chairs the Clinical Study. He did a pretty complete physical exam and then answered more questions.
Mary and Cheryl went over Chemotherapy training and answered more questions. About this time, everyone's eyes glazed over from the mounds and mounds of information! We were out of MD Anderson by noon and headed home to Pearland for a yummy lunch.
Dale doesn't have to go back tomorrow, he got most of his chemo training today. The remainder will be given during his first treatment. He does however, have to go back this evening for a Cat Scan!
Dale's second Chemo treatment will be on Oct. 12th.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
A new adventure begins!
Sept. 17th!
7:30 AM............ NURSING ASSESSMENT
8:00 AM........... BLOOD/SPECIMEN COLLECTION
8:30 AM ...........EKG - RESTING
10:30 AM......... KARP, DANIEL M.D.
11:00 AM.......... CHEST, PA & LAT
Home to Pearland for a while
7:50 PM ............CT CHECKIN-DONT EAT 3 HR PRIOR
8:20 PM ............CT SCAN, CHEST
Time............... Appointments for 9/24/2009
8:00 AM.........BLOOD/SPECIMEN COLLECTION
8:45 AM ........PHARMACOLOGY SAMPLING
9:00 AM......... TRTMNT SCHEDULED,ORDERS NEEDED
Additional Treatment dates:
Oct. 15th
(Reevaluate) Nov. 5, Nov. 26
(Reevaluate) Dec. 17, and Jan. 7
Bloodwork needed on Oct. 1 and Oct. 8 can be drawn at a lab in Victoria
Dale is the 1st of 30 patients at MD Anderson that has been accepted into the Phase III Clinical Trial of Figitumumab. On Sept. 22nd, the computer will decide if he is getting this third medication or not! Pray he's randomized into the group getting Figitumumab!
Monday, September 7, 2009
The Party of All Time
Check out Photos from the party:
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Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Clinical Trial - best option
If Dale meets the criteria for this trial, he will be accepted and initial bloodwork will be taken. An EKG will be needed also. This study is 'randomized', so not everyone recieves the new drug. Some just get the two chemotherapy drugs. Patients are told before the study starts if they are getting the new drug or not. Dale may withdraw from the study at any time.
Treatments occur about once every 3 weeks and after two treatments, Dr. Tsao will reassess the progress by doing another CT Scan. If progress is noted and Dale is tolerating the treatment well, the 3rd & 4th treatments will be scheduled. After the 3rd & 4th treatments, there will be another assessment to determine if Dale will continue on to the final 5th & 6th treatment. This is a Phase 3 trial, which means it has passed the first two Phases of trials and is showing good promise on cancers like Dale's with progression-free survival (PFS).
Dr. Tsao discussed side effects and the "ugly" side of chemotherapy, but was very adament that this is the best option for Dale. She hopes that Dale will have 2-4 days of feeling slightly ill and tired after the treatment and then recover fully for the next couple of weeks before the next treatment. At each treatment, she will exam Dale and review current bloodwork to verify that he's "good to go" with another treatment.
If, at the end of the 6th treatment, Dale will have the option to continue the Figitumumab for another 17 months (without chemotherapy) if he is seeing good results.
The plan is to discuss this with family members this weekend and if the consensus is to go ahead with the trial, then once accepted into the trial - treatment could begin next week!
http://mediaroom.pfizer.com/portal/site/pfizer/index.jsp?ndmViewId=news_view&ndmConfigId=1016273&newsId=20090530005024&newsLang=en
Friday, August 28, 2009
Pet Scan results
Good news here is that there wasn't anything lurking anywhere else in his body.
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Pet Scan complete
Now we wait for news from the Pet Scan and the recommendations from Dale's team of doctors!
Monday, August 24, 2009
Friday, August 21, 2009
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
Dammit
Several "spots" were detected on the CT Scan, some in both lungs. Further tests are required, namely, a Pet Scan to help distinguish those "spots" that are cancer from those that are "inflammatory".
This was absolutely NOT the news we wanted to hear.
The tumor treated this Spring with Proton Radiation is gone! One happy bit of news delivered today.
The news of new "places of concern" was taken with a bit of teary eyes from all of us in the room. Dr. O'Reilly assured Dale that he would continue to work with him to find the best options for treatment. He also told Dale that we are now working to contain the cancer, not cure it. This was a bitter pill to swallow and we're all trying to remain upbeat and positive until we have further information after the Pet Scan and several "committee" consult at MD Anderson.
Options suggested depending upon Pet Scan results:
1. Radiosurgery (4-10 daily treatments): A radiation therapy procedure that uses special equipment to position the patient and precisely deliver a large radiation dose to a tumor and not to normal tissue. This procedure does not use surgery. It is used to treat brain tumors and other brain disorders. It is also being studied in the treatment of other types of cancer, such as lung cancer. Also called radiation surgery, stereotactic external-beam radiation, stereotactic radiation therapy, stereotactic radiosurgery and stereotaxic radiosurgery. (Dr. O'Reilly)
2. Chemotherapy (Dr. Tsao)
3. Wedge resection of one "highly" suspicious spot (Dr. Rice)
Dale still feels great although it's taken a few hours for the "gut punch" to subside. I can hear him singing "One Day at at Time" in the kitchen right now! I guess that's our new mantra!
Side note: If you haven't responded to the RSVP for Dale's 8oth birthday bash - today would be a great day to call Marcy!
Monday, August 17, 2009
Check up time again!
Fingers crossed that they don't see anything unusual!
I'll update tomorrow night!
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Hotel Information for the Big "80" Birthday Bash!
3112 Houston Highway
Victoria, TX, US, 77901
Phone: (361) 578-2030
Fax: (361) 573-1238
Call for reservations, mention the "Dale Stover's Birthday" rate and select which nights, bed configuration and smoking preferences.
Rate is $61.99/night.
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Save the Date for Dale's 80th Birthday Bash!
Power Avenue Warehouse
402 East Power Avenue
Victoria, TX 77901 US
When: Sunday, September 6, 3:00PM
The Stover Girls want to give you and your family the heads up for Dale's 80th Birthday Party. Mark your calendars and watch for invitations in your mailbox shortly.
For those of you with family members that don't have internet access, let them know to "Save the Date"!
Monday, June 29, 2009
June Update
Dale looks great. His color, attitude and level of activity are all back to "normal". He has a vague new sensation in his chest where the Proton treatments were directed. Not a pain, just a sensation.
Dale's followup appointments have been moved to Aug. 10-11 at MD Anderson, to accomodate his physician's vacation schedule.
For family and friends, "Save the Date" of Sept. 6, 2009. Details to follow!
Monday, May 18, 2009
Week 38 - feeling the effects!
Emily will escort Dale and Jackie to San Antonio this weekend, (on their way to Marble Falls) to see their new great-grandson, James. 'Giddy' best describes their voices on the phone, when talking about him! James' middle name is Richard. Dale's pretty honored by that!
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
And then #37 was done!
It was a tearful goodbye to new friends for Dale. It was a great day for those patients who are just starting their Proton Therapy journey. Some visited with Dale and his story was very reassuring to them!
Dale and Jackie are back in Victoria tonight and wondering what to do tomorrow....a Thursday without a treatment or doctor's appointment! WOW!
Dale will have his follow up appointment with Dr. O'Reilly on July 28th. He'll have a CT Scan on July 27th prior to seeing the doctor...but until then - it's PARTY TIME!
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Day 36 Proton Therapy
Dale had his 36th treatment today and then had his last "weekly see" with Dr. O'Reilly.
Dr. O'Reilly will not see Dale again until late July. The usual 6 week checkup will be postponed. That checkup is usually to see if side effects have dissipated. Since Dale didn't really have any side effects, he doesn't need that visit.
Dale had his pictures taken with several staff members today. A new photo album to fill!
Plans are underway for Dale's final treatment reception. A trip to Sam's and Walmart and we're ready to celebrate!
Monday, May 11, 2009
Day 35 Proton Therapy
Dale is still virtually symptom free, with the exception of a fist-sized sunburn under his left arm.
Tomorrow will be Dale's last "weekly see" visit with Dr. O'Reilly. He will see Dr. O'Reilly late in June for a followup check to his treatment.
Plans are underway for refreshments to serve at Wednesday's Gong Ceremony.
If you're free Wednesday at 1pm, please join us at the Proton Center on Old Spanish Trail for the celebration of Dale's 37th and final treatment! You'll be amazed at how great he looks!
I still catch myself looking at Dale and shaking my head in disbelief that a man nearly 80 years old can take this much stress/strain medically and show no side effects or symptoms! Amazing!
Friday, May 8, 2009
Day 34 Proton Therapy
Dale let another gentleman cut in line for treatment today...the gentleman wasn't feeling or looking too well, so he wanted to be treated quickly.
Jackie and Dale left Houston around noon and headed home to Victoria for their last weekend of commuting!
Can I get a "HELL YES!" on the 3 more treatments that remain?
Thursday, May 7, 2009
A little tiny list!
Date / Time Description Location Status
05/07/2009 1:00 PM Rehabilitation Services Proton Therapy Center
Proton Therapy Center is located in the East of Fannin near 1840 OST.
05/08/2009 1:00 PM Rehabilitation Services Proton Therapy Center
Proton Therapy Center is located in the East of Fannin near 1840 OST.
05/11/2009 1:00 PM Rehabilitation Services Proton Therapy Center
Proton Therapy Center is located in the East of Fannin near 1840 OST.
05/12/2009 1:00 PM Rehabilitation Services Proton Therapy Center
Proton Therapy Center is located in the East of Fannin near 1840 OST.
05/13/2009 1:00 PM Rehabilitation Services Proton Therapy Center
Proton Therapy Center is located in the East of Fannin near 1840 OST.
A wee tiny list! A visual reminder that Dale continues to Fight the Fight! All of our fears about side effects and the stress and strain of 37 treatments has vanished. Smiles all around...laughter at the storm he's weathered so well!
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Day 32 Proton Therapy
Dale and Jackie made the all too familiar trip to the Proton Center today for their 32nd treatment.
I'm headed to Lubbock for the weekend for Emily's graduation from Texas Tech! Jackie and Dale will finish out their week here in Pearland and then head home to Victoria for their last weekend of commuting!
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
Day 31 Proton Therapy
Dale had his 31st treatment and then his weekly see with Dr. O'Reilly. An area under his left arm about the size of his fist is red but not irritated. Dr. O'Reilly showed us Dale's treatment plan on his computer. He showed us the CT Scan with the treatment plan overlayed on the scan. Each area is outlined in a different colored line depicting the strength of treatment to a specific area. The "pink" line (strongest) follows a path directly under Dale's left arm! Hence the red area. Dr. O'Reilly also showed us the Xray image of Dale's chest with a super-imposed "Aperture" placed on the xray. The aperture has a cut out in it exactly the size of Dale's tumor. Dale is getting 74 CGE's of radiation (2 CGE/treatment). Had Dale used Photon radiation that number would have been decreased to 60-66, because Photo radiation has to be administered at a lower level.
Dale thinks his energy level has wained a bit, but he put together a BBQ pit this morning - so I'm not sure he's all that tired!
Monday, May 4, 2009
Day 30 Proton Therapy
Tomorrow will be his "weekly see" with Dr. O'Reilly and then another treatment at 1pm.
Hard to believe he's so close to the end and still waiting on a serious side effect!
Friday, May 1, 2009
Day 29 Proton Therapy
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Day 28 Proton Therapy
Appointment time was 1pm today and the technicians were waiting on Dale when he got there!
Back at home by 2:15!
9 days left, puts a huge smile on Dale's face!
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Day 27 Proton Therapy
He's coughed a bit more today, it's not productive but does cause his face to flush. His appetite is still good, he split a chicken fried steak with mom tonight for dinner. Slept well last night, didn't take any Xyloxilyn. Maybe a little fatigued looking in the eyes, but is still moving around normally.
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Day 26 Proton Therapy
Dale's proton treatment was early today, 11am!
Home by 2:15!
Monday, April 27, 2009
Day 25 Proton Therapy
Dale had his treatment and was home in Pearland by 3:30! Starting Thursday this week, Dale's treatments will be at 1:00pm each day. Yippee! They will be able to drive themselves each day since they are now avoiding rush hour!
Friday, April 24, 2009
Day 24 Proton Therapy
Day 23 Proton Therapy
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Day 22 Proton Therapy
Dale and Jackie will drop Marcy off at the airport on their way home and Marcy will go back to Phoenix! It was great having her here to take do the Proton Center shuttle service! I know Jackie and Dale love having their kids around them!
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Day 21 Proton Therapy
Treatment was completed and home by 4:55pm!
Dennis and Phyllis are having a great time getting away from it all and Marcy is our savior for a few days!
Day 20 Proton Therapy
Dale will have his "weekly see" on Tuesday and hopefully get a "thumbs up" from Dr. O'Reilly!
Friday, April 17, 2009
Day 18 and 19 Proton Therapy
Dale got a real early call on Day 19 from the Proton Center (7:55am!) so they (mom, dad and Missy) packed up their stuff quickly and headed to MD Anderson for treatment. By noon they were in Victoria and rejoicing for their own surroundings and normalcy!
Still hearing no complaints about symptoms...this is unbelievable!
This is a video from another facility, but it really gives a good explanation of the treatment:
http://www.floridaproton.org/cancer-treatment/proton-therapy-video.html
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Day 17 Proton Therapy
Still symptomless!
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Day 16 Proton Therapy
Dale had his 16th treatment today. We were home by 4:30! Missy arrived at 5:30 so we are visiting this evening. I'm excited to have Missy here to drive them to treatments! I'm also excited to get to see my sister again! Cancer does have it's benefits!
Monday, April 13, 2009
Day 15 Proton Therapy
Missy is flying in from Colorado Springs tomorrow for a few days. She'll be driving Dale and Jackie to their appointments on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday! Glad to have her here!!!!!!
Dale still appears to be handling the treatments well. While he coughs some, his esophagus hasn't become a big issue and he doesn't appear to be fatigued. Fingers crossed that things stay that way!
Friday, April 10, 2009
Day 14 Proton Therapy
Dale has had an excellent day today. He's been up and moving 75% of the day and seems to feel great!
Dale has a bit of a cough occasionally, but hasn't complained with any throat/esophagus irritation today.
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Day 13 Proton Therapy
Dale is doing fine...found Coors Light (non alcoholic beer)! Happy hour by the pool and praying to the fertility gods that his granddaughter and grand son-in-law have success in their quest for a baby!
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Day Uh Oh!
Appointment moved to 5:15pm...so we're home at 7pm after fighting rush hour traffic!
12 down, 26 to go.
Jackie goes to see Dr. Lisch (podiatrist) tomorrow, she's having foot issues. We're hoping to sneak into the Proton Center early for treatment too!
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Day 11, Proton Therapy
Dale had his 11th treatment today...took 37 minutes from start to finish!
Invitation stands to anyone in the area that might want to drive over for the day and visit. They don't have much going on during the day here..just waiting around for Dale's 4:30pm appointment.
Monday, April 6, 2009
Day 10, Proton Therapy
Jackie and Dale are back in Pearland for two weeks straight. They will be celebrating Easter here in Pearland with us!
Friday, April 3, 2009
Day 9 Proton Therapy
Not sure about the first appointment time on Monday..hoping to get a firm answer sometime today!
Still going strong and 'living the dream'!
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Day 8 Proton Therapy
Jackie made up "goody bags" of Mexican Wedding cookies and distributed them to patients and staff today! Those treats brighten up everyone's days. So many patients are away from home and truly appreciate a homemade goody!
Tomorrows treatment is at 11:30am, then the Stover's head to Victoria for the weekend!
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Day 7 Proton Therapy
Now for baking 250 Mexican Wedding cookies!
Dale will also get his treatment early on Friday at 11:30am, so they can head home again for another weekend in Victoria!
No symptoms or side effects, so far....
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Day 6 Proton Therapy
We went to the Proton Therapy Center early today, since Dale's doctor appointment was over early. Thankfully, they took Dale early and we were on our way home at 3pm.
Enjoyed Deer Park Elementary's 4th & 5th choir concert tonight (Emily's first 'teaching' gig)!
Great evening entertainment!
Monday, March 30, 2009
Day 5 Proton Therapy
Tomorrow Dale will see Dr. O'Reilly for a "weekly see" (short appointment to ask questions) and then has his 6th treatment.
Friday, March 27, 2009
Day 4 Proton Therapy
4 down, 33 to go!
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Day 3 Proton Therapy
Dale is really enjoying the staff at the PTC. They greet him everyday like he's an old friend stopping off at a local tavern for a cold beer! He gives them a hard time and they enjoy the friendly banter.
Dale still isn't having any symptoms..though he has complained that salt isn't tasting salty? Will watch for this complaint more often to see if this is a side effect he is feeling.
Dale's appointment tomorrow will hopefully be moved from 4:30pm to 11am so they can head back to Victoria for the weekend. Jackie's having issues with a swollen ankle and her Dr. in Victoria wants her to have some bloodwork Saturday morning. They will return on Monday for another treatment at 2pm.
So far the living arrangements are working well, although I'm needing to find things for them to do during the day while we're all at work. If any of you have a few hours during the daytime, they'd love a visit or perhaps a drive to Galveston.
Missy and family have returned to Colorado Springs following their extended Spring Break in Texas. It was a great joy to have her along for the first few days of treatment. I think it was great for her to see where Dale will be spending the next 7 weeks of his life!
34 more treatments!
Day 2 Proton Therapy
We stayed at the center after his treatment, so we could join the once monthly tour of the entire facility. Oh my gosh! This was incredible. The brain power and engineering feat to create this technology was amazing. Unless you see this facility you will never comprehend the magnitude of the treatment room! The rotating "gantry" that moves around Dale while he is treated is about 3 stories tall!
We finally left the Proton Center at 8:30 and headed home with a Sonic Burger for dinner!
Dale still feels no effect from the treatment.
Here's a video about Proton Therapy: http://www.mpri.org/flash/presentation.html
mms://mdavs1.mdacc.tmc.edu/media/patiented/108.wmv
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Day 1 Proton Therapy
Dale says you don't feel anything during the treatment. Listened to Roy Orbison sing "Pretty Woman" and a few other requested tunes! Appointments continue daily for 36 more days!
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Update from Dr. O'Reilly
Dale will see Dr. O'Reilly on Tuesday, Mar. 24th at 1:30pm for a "weekly see" and then have his first of 37 proton radiation treatments at 4:30pm.
But for now...Jackie and Dale are sorting through their tropical shirts, swimsuits and formal gowns as they pack for their Spring Break 2009 Family Reunion cruise!!! Bon Voyage!
Monday, March 9, 2009
Simulation Mapping complete
Dale rec'd his weekly schedule of treatments, starting Mar. 24th - May 13 at 4:30pm every weekday! He got his "white card" for admission at the Proton Therapy Center.
Dale and Jackie will head back to Victoria tomorrow and get packing for their cruise next week! In a word, we are all giddy with excitement about this great family vacation!
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Yippee, No Chemotherapy!
Dr. O'Reilly met with Dale and Jackie and laid out a plan of treatment for Dale aimed at destroying the cancerous tumor! Dale will begin 7 weeks of proton radiation therapy at MD Anderson on Mar. 24th. He will have another Brain MRI (3:30pm) and a simulation mapping scan Mar. 9th at 2:30pm. The mapping scan will further define the exact location of the tumor for the treatments.
Dr. O'Reilly discussed side effects and future scans to access the effectiveness of the treatment.
Dale was very relieved to not hear "Chemotherapy" in his treatment plan and is anxious to get the radiation treatments going soon. They will temporarily move to Pearland for the duration of the treatment, with weekends in Victoria is Dale feels up to the travel.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Biopsy Report
Jackie and Dale are headed to Pearland now, for tomorrow's appointments at MD Anderson.
Monday, February 23, 2009
Pet Scan findings
There were no other findings anywhere else in his body.
These findings confirm what was seen on the CT scan.
We are still waiting for the biopsy results.
Friday, February 20, 2009
Live update
UPDATE:
Procedure took one hour. Recovery for 3 hours and then home to Pearland for the night. No pain from the procedure. We await word on the Pet Scan yesterday.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
High Hopes
Enjoying a few adult beverages at Rotary House this evening...up early in the morning for the biopsy.
Cross everything tonight!
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Any nurses out there with a definition for us?
VIR PRE-PROCEDURE EVAL NEW LV2
Also, for those in the Houston area who'd like to join us for one or twenty cocktails Thursday evening. Dale, Jackie and I will be at the bar at the Jesse Jones Rotary House hotel (Marriott Hotel adjacent to MD Anderson) throwing back cold ones from 5:30pm Thursday until one of us falls off the bar stool! Then we'll carry that fallen friend to their hotel room for a good night's sleep!
See ya there!
Thursday, February 12, 2009
It is what it is...
Dale will have a Pet Scan on Thursday, Feb. 19th at MD Anderson at 11am. He will have a needle biopsy on Friday, Feb. 20th at 7am. He will meet with Dr. Anne Tsao (chemotherapy oncologist) at 10am on Feb. 25th and a Radiation Oncologist at 1:45pm...to determine which route for treatment will best benefit him. Additional surgery is not an option for him.
While this wasn't the news we had hoped to hear. We are hopeful that if this tumor is indeed another cancer, that it is a single tumor and that targeted radiation treatments can destroy it.
Dr. Rice assured Dale that his Spring Break cruise will go on as scheduled with any treatments occurring after the cruise.
Dale feels fine and his attitude is good. "It is, what it is", and we will deal with it.
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Voyager of the Seas! Christmas 2008
Poolside on the Lido Deck!
Champagne Toast in Jackie and Dale's suite before Christmas Eve dinner!
Christmas morning in Dennis and Phyllis' cabin!
